Topic: spankings? what is your take

[notatroll]

Want to little boys for a week? I guarentee you will change your mind.

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[wvchat]

They can spend a week with me anytime and I guarantee you they won't come home and say "Chat spanked me".  Now they may prefer a spanking but they won't get one.  If you're going to send them can you make it soon because it's time to put up the hay. 

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[Graybeard]

Want to little boys for a week? I guarentee you will change your mind.

Can they mow grass and cut firewood? All work makes Jack a dull boy, so we'll find time for some dirt bike riding too. 

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[notatroll]

Want to little boys for a week? I guarentee you will change your mind.

Can they mow grass and cut firewood? All work makes Jack a dull boy, so we'll find time for some dirt bike riding too. 

Actually they can mow grass and help with firewood.  Our theory is that they are old enough to help and a little work will in the end make them a better citizen and person.    My husband just gave my oldest a 125 dirtbike, so he is just learning to ride.  I am learning to bite my lip and stay inside.

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[Moonglow©]

Are they bad or do you believe in the old saying "Spare the rod spoil the child"?  How old is too old to spank?

Women are never too old to spank

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[notatroll]

Are they bad or do you believe in the old saying "Spare the rod spoil the child"?  How old is too old to spank?

Women are never too old to spank

 

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[~*A*W*~]

Are they bad or do you believe in the old saying "Spare the rod spoil the child"?  How old is too old to spank?

Women are never too old to spank

 

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[whatmeworry?]

It depends on the kid.

Some kids dont need to be spanked and then there are my kids.

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[notatroll]

It depends on the kid.

Some kids dont need to be spanked and then there are my kids.

 

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[Sandy Eggo]

I totally agree that it depends on the kid and even then it's really only useful at an age before they can reason verbally.

For example, my son was very obediant. I could give him "the look" and he'd square his act away. When he got older I could talk to him and reinforce w/a constructive punishment and that worked.

My daughter, was a different child. She was very headstrong and would throw terrible fits. I could get her to calm down to reason with her. If I ignored her until she calmed down, then she'd go on and on forever and in some situations, I didn't have time. She'd get a couple real quick pops on the bootie and she'd stop. Then, I could talk to her. It was just to get her attention and as her vocabulary developed I was more successful with talking and other methods.

Both of my children respect me and others and are pretty good most of the time. lol



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[bigunwv]

whatever it takes....  i never had to spank my children...  they feared the 'look'  .. had that not of worked I would have knocked them out...

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