Nota, The man's wife should make an appointment for a consultation with his doctor. She or someone else should write a list of the changes in him since he came home, and then write down some questions. For example: Why did his eyes change color? Why is he mentally "fuzzy"? Did the "infection" spread to his brain? Is his diabetes causing these problems? Did he have a stroke? Does he have other problems I should know about?
She should also make a list of the medications he is on. Then she should make a copy of both lists, and take the originals to the doctor. I would ask for a written list of what his diagnoses are (what they are treating him for); and what medications he should be taking for each.
Many people are too embarrassed to admit they don't have a clue what is going on or what the doctors and/or nurses are talking about. (I go blank - I remember my questions after I get home.)
They have the right to ask someone else - a "patient's advocate" - to go with them to see the doctor. That person can, with the patient's permission, sit in and ask questions and take notes.
Example: Not too long ago, one of my nieces asked me and her mother to go with her see the surgeon who was going to operate on her. I sat in while he explained what he was going to do, what medications he preferred to use for pain, what she should expect afterwards,etc. We were all free to - and did - ask questions.
Libby
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